Tag: relationships

  • We need to talk…

    ‘You asked for it’. ‘You sure you didn’t lead him on?’ ‘You shouldn’t have been drinking anyway’. ‘Well you didn’t say no so…’ All too often, we see that statements and questions like these are thrown around and said, but let me ask you a question instead: if someone close to you was raped, perhaps […]

  • Friends who don’t Support You

    We all go through moments with different friends, when we can’t understand why they don’t support our various endeavours. I’m here to tell you that just because you have a passion or two, doesn’t mean that others will feel passionate about it for you. Sometimes, others are envious or annoyed that your dreams are so […]

  • Control Your Inner Demons

    Controlling your inner demons is not about being the bigger person… It is about not giving into another person’s foolishness. The inner demons are the anger and rage that we sometimes allow to manifest or take over within ourselves. They are the internal thoughts and parts of ourselves that come out in various negative ways. […]

  • Change your Actions

    Why do people’s comments not matter when they say positive things about us? But when people say negative things about us, those are the statements we keep in our minds? You don’t have to accept their hateful words or manipulation. If someone in your life allows their insecurities to control their actions, you don’t have […]

  • A message from your ‘strong friends’

    Life is full of challenges and we all have our own issues and situations to deal with.  Everyone has their own coping mechanisms and that should always be respected and accepted. I am used to being there for other people and honestly, I like it.  I am glad that I can help you and others […]

  • To the person who always plays the victim,

    You are someone who always gets the short end of the stick right? Why does everyone always try to hurt you? You deserve much better than what people give you. You always do so much for others. All people do is disrespect you, when you show them nothing but love, kindness and loyalty… Believe me, […]

  • Re-evaluating Friendships

    I have always been someone who likes to be busy, whether that involves going to work, studying or other activities and my friends know this.  So, they understand that I am not always available to talk, but they know that when they need me, I will always be there for them.  I have a lot […]