From Someone Who Cares

Tag: friendships

  • Gone are the Days…

    Gone are the days when we don’t believe good things will happen to us. Gone are the days when we don’t believe good things should come to us. Gone are the days when we don’t see the beauty in who we are. Gone are the days when we forget our own strength. Gone are the…

  • Reminders for the Year Ahead

    Do not let life and time just pass you by. Asking for help does not make you weak. Life will not always seem bad. Not everyone needs to know what is going on in your life. It is okay to let people go. Putting yourself first is not always selfish. You matter!

  • To the person going through a ‘life crisis’

    These are trying times. Life is hard. Life is really hard… Where do we go from here? What do we do now? Do we just wait and see how things will play out? What is our purpose? Do we even have a purpose? Right now, the whole world feels like it is on fire, and…

  • Boundaries

    Become aware of the things you will and will not accept, not only from others but from yourself. Overcome the challenges you face, so you can start believing that you deserve the things you want in life. Unpack the reasons why you think you are not entitled to more than the bare minimum. Not all…

  • To be okay or not?

    Be mindful of how you treat others because the same way not everyone will know what you are experiencing is the same way you will not know everything that others are going through. We all experience highs and lows in life. With this, we need to accept that everyone’s highs and lows will are different,…

  • You are Strong!

  • To the person who has no Valentine

    So, you aren’t in a relationship and you aren’t dating anyone… that is okay! All you need for Valentine’s day is someone to love: why can’t that be you? It makes sense to get to know and love yourself before being with another person, right?  You should be in a committed, long-term relationship with yourself,…

  • We need to talk…

    ‘You asked for it’. ‘You sure you didn’t lead him on?’ ‘You shouldn’t have been drinking anyway’. ‘Well you didn’t say no so…’ All too often, we see that statements and questions like these are thrown around and said, but let me ask you a question instead: if someone close to you was raped, perhaps…

  • Friends who don’t Support You

    We all go through moments with different friends, when we can’t understand why they don’t support our various endeavours. I’m here to tell you that just because you have a passion or two, doesn’t mean that others will feel passionate about it for you. Sometimes, others are envious or annoyed that your dreams are so…

  • Control Your Inner Demons

    Controlling your inner demons is not about being the bigger person… It is about not giving into another person’s foolishness. The inner demons are the anger and rage that we sometimes allow to manifest or take over within ourselves. They are the internal thoughts and parts of ourselves that come out in various negative ways.…